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I
want to talk about dating sites for me
it's really important because in this
day and age dating said sure how we miss
you to meet each other and they're very
important and well it's really important
to be able to find a good dating site
and I've been having this complication
because it's really hard to find a good
one.
I was on bad to you which I liked it
was nice but the promises overloaded you
get so many messages so many likes and
so many people that are interested in
you it's in pop it's impossible to
actually, connect with them if anyone
online movies there's just too many
people and sometimes the description
isn't even that good for you.
Look at the
profile and there's not very much and it
seems like kind of a booty call kind of
site in my opinion people don't seem to
be going on there for true love just
kind of day hitch and it's kind of thing
anyway so bad who wasn't my favorite.
So
I kind of you know yes I'm single I'm
the more a market I recently got
divorced so I've been going on dating
sites trying to find a good one and I've
learned a lot of not bad ones well at At least they have real profiles bumblebee
was nice I don't mind that at all it's
nice because it's more about connecting
with people than anything and it's kind
of nice.
because I have questions I love
dating sites with questions we answer
questions and they compare you with
other people and also I have been on a
doctor medic which is French but it
wasn't really my favorite but one the particular site that I really want to
talk about today this is me debunking
dating calm because I was I've been
on it and it's very expensive I know
most of us we can't afford that and you
know me I'm a waitress.
I can't afford to
spend a dollar on each message I sent
send this somebody I mean even if it's
looking for the right kind of guy and
even if the guys I mean if the guys
we're all awesome and amazing it's
something expensive if I love it
shouldn't be that expensive
it should be free actually um so dating
was up I've been recently on dating site
and I did spend a little bit of money to
send messages to people, but the problem
is there's a pigeon on my balcony?
Okay that has nothing to do with dating
sites but I don't like pigeons on my
balcony and that's why I looked over
there but I'm gonna continue it for ten
the pigeon is not much okay so okay back
to the dating site so basically I was on
dating conte and one thing I noticed
about it is and I mind the thought has a bit on there's a ton of profiles and
they're like perfect men and imagine if
your men are the same for a woman you go
on there and it's all perfect profiles
like everything is done perfectly like
beautiful pictures the profiles nice
it's romantic and then immediately.
You
start getting a ton of messages romantic
messages every single message you get
and I'm telling you tons of message it's
some really romantic thing like hey I
really enjoy our men's romance
how about you would you like to be
romantic together and get to know
each other but like every message
is perfect and I know from being on.
Badda-Badda you and other sites that one
guy's message to you generally's not
this perfect romantic message it's like
hello my name is Xavier I work at an
office what about you you know it's
usually very common what you would
expect from people you but this site
every single message you get from
somebody, it's something like roses are
red violets are blue
sugar is sweet and I think you're nice
and it's just too perfect. do you know
what say and at first I was like okay so
maybe they have a question here
where they you know give you you know
you can choose to know a message to
send to somebody so you don't have to
actually, type it but it gives you a big
list.
So maybe it's that but there's so
many different ones like it's insane The next thing I noticed and I was thinking
okay well the guys all look perfect like
every single guy looks like Prince
Charming you know and it is best and so
I thought okay because it's really
expensive so I'm being myself figured
out a way to send a few free messages to
to the guys and so I thought because in
every other dating site they're always
trying to get my you know my Facebook or
my Snapchat or my what's up they're
always begging for it I'm normally.
I'm
the one reluctant to give it because you
know I don't want my Facebook flooded
with messages from guys, you know what
I'm saying and so I thought okay well
since these guys, all look really perfect
anyway I'll send them all a message I
have another Facebook that I used for my
dating site this might kind of make my
dating site Facebook so if I like a guy.
I let him on this Facebook but it's not
my real Facebook it's kind of my dating
site Facebook to keep you know you know
the psycho is away from my real life
because you never know who's normal in
his psychic so basically I started
giving every guy that seemed nice which
is pretty much all of them my Facebook
and I'm like hey here's my Facebook name
you know.
I would like to talk on
Facebook it's really expensive to talk
here I mean it's literally like almost
$1 our message it's ridiculous and so
and one thing that was weird
first off was both the first guy was
like no I prefer to speak here like one The thing that is weird is even guys with the
money don't want to waste their money
you know they're not gonna sit there and
go oh no no my purse I prefer to speak
with you on this site where I have to
spend a dollar every time
since I mean that's so weird and then
Okay maybe this guy's just really rich
and he can just throw his money in the
trashcan like that but not every guy's
gonna be like that so I messaged several
guys on this site several guns and every the single guy said the same thing every one
of them oh my I prefer to speak come on
here ah but maybe later but let's talk
here for her for weeks and get to know
each other oh every single guy they said
the same thing
and.
I started thinking this is so weird
like this is not normal that everybody
insists on talking on the site rather
than talking on a man what guy whose I
don't have a Facebook and I'm like okay
well what do you haven't he's like oh I
prefer to talk on here and I'm thinking
this is so weird
so I come to the conclusion and you can
try it for yourself I mean keep your
eyes open I've come to the conclusion
that the site is a scam I think that
dating com hires individuals from all
around the world
Whatever and pays them
per message or pays them for talking to
people and getting people to talk on
them so women and men are going on there
thinking wow this perfect person is
talking to me oh my god i'm so lucky and
they talk pop pop spending all money
obviously, it's just gonna be a money gig
Because you're never gonna get close to
these guys because that's just what they
do for a living and it was also weird is
when you log on immediately you get
messages from all these perfect people
perfect people and none of the profiles
with normal they're all perfect you know
what I'm saying it's just it's too shady
for me.
And so I wanted to point this out
to you, you don't even trying it out go
on there the way to message people for
free that I found
you know if you send them an email for
some reason it allows you to actually a
message him if the first message is
an email so you go and you say send
email and you send a melon suddenly you
can go back to the message and you can
send a few messages before it demands
you to pay and I think they purposely
made it or you can do this so that you
can these guys kinda reel you in a little bit and then
next thing you know
you're paying you can see like oh my god this cute guy talking to me I'm gonna
beg ya and you can't blame them because
if that guy is really talking to you I
mean like if Brad Pitt was talking here
you definitely pay to talk to him right
I know.